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Christmas
& Giving - 7 Benefits of Generosity!
By
Bernadette Dimitrov,
The HoHoHo Expert!
Christmas is a prominent time synonymous with giving. Giving is the
act of generosity. It nourishes love in our relationships and builds
the human spirit. Christmas is a time where people are renowned to
give without expectation. Health professionals tell us that those
who give and who do not feel diminished by the act of giving are the
most psychologically healthy in our society today.
Christmas is a wonderful time to start your practice of generosity.
Here are seven benefits of giving and why you will want to
incorporate them not only at Christmas but in your daily life:
1.
Builds relationships - giving reinforces appreciations and
acknowledgement of each other and thus is an important ingredient
for building relationships.
2.
Deepens relationships - by sharing past and future thoughts
we give of our selves in an intimate way. It can be a wonderful
deepening ritual such as at Christmas to come together and openly
give and share feelings, experiences and wishes.
3.
Expresses feelings - giving is a way to express and show
feelings especially if you are not comfortable expressing feelings
through words. Giving is an opportunity to express a whole range of
feelings such as gratitude, appreciations and thanks.
4.
Creates memories - through giving we have many ways to create
and leave lasting memories. Our willingness to care, show interest,
give time, loyalty, honesty and by going out of our way to do
something extra for someone else such as preparing a special meal,
writing a special verse on why we love and cherish someone or making
a special gift as a symbol of our love, are some of the ways we can
give and create lasting memories.
5.
Creates Predictability - we all love predictability;
especially children as it gives them a sense of security. Through
the predictable act of giving especially at birthdays and Christmas
celebrations, the expectation of appreciations, acknowledgement,
love and being made to feel extra special is created by the ritual
of giving.
6.
De-stressor - giving is all about looking outside of
ourselves with no expectation of anything in return. It is putting
others first for concentrated moments in time. The ritual of giving
takes the focus off ourselves and our stresses in life are handled
with a more balanced focus.
7.
Creates Miracles - connecting into the community by giving
has huge benefits. It reinforces love in all our lives. It creates
leverage which creates miracles when together we give for the
greater good.
Giving is an expression of our love. We give in many ways with our
supportive words, our listening, attention and giving of our time
and of course through material giving too. It is the glue that holds
people together, it has created miracles and is a way to renew our
love for one another and create lasting cherished memories.
About the Author
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