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New Year
Resolutions - How to Make them Work
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Mrs
Claus Tips for Investing in Yourself & Your Goals in the New Year!
By
Bernadette Dimitrov,
The HoHoHo Expert!
We all want to manifest our goals
set for the new year, yet four out of five people never do. So here
are Mrs Claus top tips to keep investing in yourself to give your
goals and resolutions the fuel to manifestation.
According to
Mrs Claus we are spiritual beings having a human experience. We
need to ignite our spirit but how do we do that? It is with
passion. Yes passion is what will spur you on to invest in yourself
and do what you have to do to manifest your goals. Otherwise they
are merely wishes with no fuel to bring them into fruition.
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Here
are Mrs Claus top tips she teaches at the North Pole school
to the elves to ensure they have the right understanding to
set them off on a great path in life. One of fulfillment
and manifestation of their goals in their life:
1. don’t choose a goal that you think you should do
because of outside influences (such as a new trend) choose a
goal that inspires you; you are passionate about it!
2. Be specific
about your intentions. It is no good to be vague about what
you want because that will lead to nothing. Being specific
with steps and measurable intentions for your life with a
plan that concludes with the end result will give you steps
to work on which is what you need to put into action each
day. Without specific planning and measurable intentions
you are still in dream mode. To dream is good however you
are human so you need to go to the next step or little to
nothing will happen. You must have a required action plan.
Here is an example: for
prosperity don’t say “I am going to make more money this
year” it’s not specific enough. Say “I will make an extra
$200 per week for the next 12 months”. Then you have to
write out how you will achieve this step by step for each
day, week and month with a time frame so your goal can be
measurable and fine tuned as you go. This will also keep
you motivated with a challenge to aspire to each day.
Another example may be to develop a deeper and more loving
relationship with your children. “I will spend 20 minutes
every second day with one of my children with total focus
and commitment to doing an activity, reading to them or
talking about their life just with them and no
distractions”. This is a great goal and achievable if you
diarize in advance with your children so this activity is
expected and will be looked forward to. Imagine the
development of love and heart connection with your
children. Feelings will transpire from you that you
acknowledge, love and cherish them. This is
transformational.
3. Decide to eliminate “attention deficit disorder” from
your intentions and goals. It is so easy to get distracted
in this modern fast past world. However it is actually a
choice and you need to be conscious of your choices at any
given moment. Whenever you choose to be distracted you take
away the fuel from your rocket and the destination becomes
only a dream once more. As our friend best selling author
and mentor James Ray says “energy goes where attention
flows”. You must keep your attention where you are going no
matter what is going on in your life. Distractions are a
test to your commitment and how much you really want the end
result. This is why you must be clear about the inspiration
and passion behind each goal. If it is not there then this
is where you will easily be distracted and your energy
towards your goals will be scattered out the door. It
happens in a moments choice. Choose to be conscious in the
moment this coming year and you will witness amazing
transformation in your life.
4. Celebrate each victory along the way no matter how
small the victory you need to acknowledge it, that you are
making progress and give yourself a pat on the back. For
example today I exercised by walking to the shops instead of
taking my car. I choose fresh fruit instead of a cake.
These are all small steps that accumulate to the success of
a massive goal such as weight loss and health gain. Never
underestimate each decision you make – it is powerful.
Always ask yourself is this choice bringing me closer to my
goal or further away. You are always in control. It is
your choice and you constantly create more of what you
choose. If you find yourself constantly slipping back into
old habits you need to make your reasons for your intentions
stronger. This is where a personal coach or reading books
like “The Passion Test” may be a great start.
5. Be grateful. Gratitude is one of the most powerful
magnetic forces in the universe. This is absolutely true.
How so you say. Well whenever you are grateful starting
from the smallest of things such as even the light switch
that brings light into your room so you can read at night,
do your favorite craft, eat at a later time of the evening
etc. You start to see the miracles around you and amazing
goals and intentions that others have set and brought into
fruition. You acknowledge with gratitude these things in
your life such as that light switch. Someone had to dream
it, another invents it, another make it, while others had to
promote and sell it. So many people involved in so many
amazing ways just in your home each day. Gratitude takes
you out of your own head space into a place where your
energy and mood can be uplifted.
Gratitude leads to acknowledgement which leads to
appreciation of one another. We really are not isolated and
alone. We experience each day the dreams and intentions of
others all around us when we choose to practice gratitude.
This really is a great way to improve your attitude and
feelings which will give you more energy and more enthusiasm
for life and your own goals and intentions.
6. Remember to act each day from the outcome of your
goal. A great way to do this is to visualize the end
result. You can do this in your head or get a vision board
and put images and words that match the end result that you
can look at each day. The idea is to remind yourself how
would someone who has achieved this goal such as be at my
ideal weight make choices during the day. Do they eat cake
at morning tea or fruit?
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